Catch a Cheating Wife on Tape. We did.
Want to catch a cheating wife? You probably need to hire a private investigator.
The guy called us and said, "I have never done this before, but I thought you might be able to help me if you do this type of thing". He continued, "I think my wife is cheating on me, she's is having an affair with one of her co-workers. I have asked her to be honest but my inquiries just provoke an argument".
This is the way many of my conversations begin when a husband or wife calls me, concerned that their spouse is cheating. In many cases, they have been living with their doubt, fear, anger, and suspicions for years. Once they take action, and hire us to catch a cheating spouse, it's like a huge burden is finally lifted and they know there is finally a light at the end of the tunnel.
Stop the vicious cycle of fights, arguments, and denials
This client, like so many others before, has been asking, begging, and pleading with his wife for her to simply be honest with him about whether she was involved with another man. She swore she wasn't, telling her husband she had just become tired of their life together and she needed to have some time for herself. The accusations and arguments were becoming more frequent.
The client's wife seemed to want to bait him into arguments, possibly to get a violent reaction from him. He continued to do his best to remain cool, taking care of their two children full-time and standing by while his wife packs overnight bags at least once a week. He couldn't take it anymore.
Believe it or not: Video evidence of a cheating spouse can provide peace of mind
In this case, we were found online by our client's sister. This is also common. Perhaps you confide in a close friend or family member about your cheating spouse suspicions, but are too afraid to act on them yourself. However, family members and friends can become enraged, so they will start looking for solutions for you. Once his sister provided him with our contact number, it was the catalyst he needed to finally take action.
It only took us a single night of cheating spouse surveillance to catch the wife in action with her lover. After her work shift, the two of them headed back to her car and flirted, talked, kissed and made out while we caught the whole thing on tape.
The next time we saw the cheating wife, we were serving her a packet of divorce papers. The minute our client knew for sure that she was cheating, and that she had spent the previous months arguing, lying, and trying to make him feel like he was the one with issues, he was ready to move on with his life.
Tips for using cheating spouse surveillance to get evidence
- Do your homework. The wrong investigator will waste your time and money, taking advantage of what you don't know about surveillance services. Take the time to research your investigator so you know you're hiring someone reputable. Make sure they are licensed and look into their work experience. Many P.I.s boast previous law enforcement or FBI backgrounds, however that doesn't mean they quit of their own accord. You want to make sure you are hiring someone professional and responsible. Look for testimonials, or online reviews, to see if their services are recommended.
- Call in advance. Most private investigators are busy. While we would love to drop everything to follow your wife or girlfriend to the bar or party she's headed to this evening, we usually need a little advanced notice. When you give us a call, we can discuss her daily schedule and routines, and set up cheating spouse surveillance accordingly. Surveillance services can be very affordable when we know the best window of opportunity to catch a cheating wife.
- Be prepared. Nobody ever knows exactly how they will react to the news and evidence that their spouse is cheating. Some people expect to feel enraged, and end up surprisingly calm and relieved to finally know the truth. Others are sure they'll be able to handle it, and then completely fall apart. It is a good idea to have a plan about how you will handle the news, and how you want to proceed. If you are like the client we helped recently, the divorce papers can be filled out and ready to go. Otherwise, you may need to have a place to go and stay for a while in case you need time to process the news.
Ready to hire an experienced, licensed private investigator to catch your cheating spouse? Contact Mike Garroutte, owner of Linked Investigations. He has helped to provide peace of mind for his clients since 1982. We'll get to the bottom of your case and help you to move forward.